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There’s a certain selfish, perhaps self-indulgent quality to this.She is really only thinking of her own needs and not the needs of her son or her daughter-in-law for that matter.You can get married, but that doesn’t mean you belong to anyone but ME.
You see, the mother who hangs onto her son past the time she is supposed to is expressing a certain kind of ‘narcissism.’ The narcissistic mother is trying to cure her problems within herself by hanging onto and expecting emotional things from her adult son.
From then on it becomes a matter of gaining personal freedom and owning your own love-life.
If his marriage survives his separation from his mother (guilt), he and his wife will be able to have more of the marriage they dreamed of.
Can you tell there is an underlying emotional maybe physical competition going on in this message? When you are truly married you are committed 100% to another woman, your wife/lover.
You’ve left one woman (mom) to fully commit to another (wife/lover).
In my experience there’s always an underlying well of resentment in these men.